There are so many films and TV programmes full of couples you are just willing to get back together or realise they are perfect for one another like Mulder and Scully, Meredith and Derek and Bones and Brenan. We all love to watch as the will they, won't they becomes the surreal episode where our dreams for that couple comes true and they finally get it together, only to find out it goes wrong or it's not real.



BUT THAT'S TV!!! I know it's great, but in the real world they would have all slept together at Christmas parties and realised it wasn't right, probably gone out with their brother or sister for good measure just to make sure that they would never be together.



In reality if you have just broken up with someone and you think you are still in love, just answer these questions and put a stop to many years of wondering and considering if the person you were just with is the one that got away.



1) Why did you break up? Really why? Because in my opinion usually one person has compromised who they are too much and aren't even themselves anymore. Then they get sick of the other person taking them for granted and expecting too much from them.



2) Which one were you? Can you learn from this? Next time, don't bend so far as to break or just stop expecting the m