After a breakup, it is natural for you to be asking how to get him to want you back. You will get plenty of answers from friends and family, but it will not be what you want to hear. Most of them will either tell you to let him go and find someone better, or they will say go to him and tell him you love him and want him back now. They mean well, but you know you cannot do what they are telling you to do. To get him back you need these amazingly easy steps to win your ex boyfriend back.



The first thing you need to do, if you want your ex back is give him the impression that you are accepting the breakup and moving on with your life. This will take a lot of courage and determination, but if you want a future with him, you must cut off all contact now. Perhaps you have already been letting your emotions control your actions. If you have been calling him at all hours of the day and night, screaming that you cannot live without him, you have to stop it now. You need to drop out of his sight for several weeks.



Go look into the mirror. You are an attractive woman with a great personality and you do not have to demean yourself for any man. Show him that you can get along without him and he will come to see th