Get Back at Your Ex With These 3 Quick Tips

A relationship is a fragile thing which needs to be built up and maintained so they can flourish and provide happiness. However, this is not always the case. Many times a break up occurs. These can be stressful, depressing, and consuming. If you were involved in a relationship that ended, you may be thinking of ways to get back at your ex but is this really the best course of action?

One of the most effective methods to actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship. How you ask? Check out these 5 tips to get back at your ex, pique their curiosity, and make them desire you more.

1. Being strong: Did you know that many relationships end because one mate thinks the other is too needy, clingy, or desperate? If this was you, then stop! Chances are your ex was originally attracted to a strong willed, independent and strong acting person. Guess what? That was you! Look to your past to solve your present. Have you become needy, clingy or desperate? If so, take measures to stop this. Take back the power and get back at your ex. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.

2. Minimize communication While this may seem to be the exact opposite of what you want, I assure you it is not. By taking a "breather" from your ex you will allow them to stew over the break up, analyze their feelings for you, and give them time to "miss" you. Use this time to work on tip 1 and become the person your ex craves again.

3. Be(come) Yourself. If you think about it, there was probably a good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well. Then, the original attraction can resurface and reconciliation can begin.

As you can see, these tips are not necessarily methods to get back at your ex in a traditional sense. These are really psychological approaches to trigger an emotional response from your ex and make them realize what they are missing. So before you go drawing up a master plan of revenge, ask yourself this: Do you want to get back at your ex or, do you want to get back WITH your ex?