Many couples have a great relationship before but there could be a time when good times come to an end all because your boyfriend wants to have some space. This could be due to reasons like family problems, insecurity or a fear of commitment to the relationship. Many people have overcome this when they apply some of the following tips.
You have to be calm and not lose your cool. Tell him that you are okay with his decision and make him feel that it is his loss to breakup with you. When you do this, he may be surprised at your attitude and this will make him respect you more. Tell him that both of you can still be friends.
If you can feel that your ex boyfriend still have some feelings for you, then you will need to have some short communication with him. Whether it's on the phone, online chatting on your computer or sending text messages, keep all this to be as brief as possible so that he will have some breathing space of his own and will not feel that you have taken up a lot of his time.
In time to come, your boyfriend may feel that he still have some interest in you if everything goes well. This will give you a chance into getting him back into the relationship with you. When at this stage, it is crucial to talk about the happy times both of you have before the breakup. This is to ensure that your boyfriend will not be reminded of the bad feelings where he has no space of his own while in the relationship.
If your boyfriend is not responding to what you have done so far, then you need to take this in your stride. He maybe not interested in you now or he is really feeling no space to breathe and you should give it to him. On the other hand, if he is showing some interest in you again, then what you have done is on the right track and you should plan a step by step and proven strategy to make him come back to you.
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