There are myriad reasons why spouses lie. It may be something that they want to hide from you as they know how you might be disposed towards the truth, there are many other reason why spouse lie; for instance, the harsh temperament of a spouse or the mood swings that might result from the news. There is a chance of shock reaction as well. Many spouses lie because they want to simply cut out from a possibly difficult situation. Let's see how we may spot liars.
Through change of gestures- When people tell truth, there are certain transmitters in the brain through which receptors pass. Similarly, when people lie, there are other receptors which are being touched through. This is why a person stands tall while speaking a truth and hides behind a thousand curtains when lying. The demeanor simply changes. They look to be more slumped. They would keep their eyes away from you while lying and they would also look to keep their hands ahead of their mouth so that the truth does not pop out accidentally.
Through change of voice- Spouses who lie use a lot of fillers while speaking. They speak in extreme timbres. This means that the voice is modulated in such a way that it is either too high or too low. At the same time, they would also look to shout on you when asked about a delicate question that may bring them out in the open. Spouses who lie generally do not speak coherent sentences. They always look to speak in a manner where they can pre-find if anything they are saying might not compromise their position. So the answers are most likely to come out 5 seconds after you question them.
They would try prevarication- This means they would like to place an alibi for each of their move. They would use the names for all their friends in advance for any emergency cover-ups.
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