when couples break up sometimes there still exists a lingering hope that they could still fix and work out their relationship. If you are in the same situation right now, are you also thinking that your relationship deserves a second chance? You don't want to give up on it yet and you are really determined to give it another try. This article shows you the fastest tips on how to get your lover back without losing your self-respect and grace.



1. Go to the root of the problem. Do not solve the superficial problems. Find out the issues in your relationship that you think which led to your break up. Figure out what caused the problem to come up in the first place and what were your actions that may have contributed to it. Be willing to make the necessary changes.



2. You don't realize it but if you have just recently broken up, your lover still misses you and thinks about you too. However, this is not enough reason for you to call your ex and ask him if he wants to get back together with you. Remember, although he misses you, he asked for the break up and getting back together with you at this point is the last thing on his mind. If you keep asking and calling he will only see you as pathetic and needy making his resolve of leaving the relationship stronger.



3. Make an effort to look good and feel good about yourself. You