If your girlfriend has broken up with you and you want to get her back the question "how do I get my girlfriend back"? is probably the only thing on your mind.



Your best chance of getting your ex back is by doing the following:



Stop reliving the breakup



The first thing to avoid is the temptation to over-analyze the situation. It would be a pointless waste of valuable time and energy to keep replaying the circumstances of the breakup with your girlfriend and asking yourself if there was anything you could have done to prevent it.



Even if there was something you could have done differently (or even should have done differently) before the relationship foundered, it won't change anything; your girlfriend has broken up with you, now you need to look to the future.



Keep calm



When your ex breaks up with you and you still love her, it is natural to worry in case she meets somebody else. She is now your ex girlfriend, so there is nothing to prevent her finding a new boyfriend, but you still think of her as "my girlfriend" and you want her to be with you and nobody else.



Your girlfriend will have been upset by the break up; it is a highly emotional event even if she instigated the break. She won't be ready to get in