The Difference Between Wanting and Needing a Woman

How often do we hear in pop-songs, that a man needs a woman? Well, we hear it so often, that we hardly pay attention to it anymore. But if you are not careful, you will fail to see that it is a big treat to your happiness, to really need a woman, instead of wanting to be with her.

For a man, it is healthy to want a woman. But it is not good to need a woman. It is not good when you are convinced that you need one specific woman. Wanting is good, but needing is bad.

When you think you need a woman; that you cannot live without her, you are no longer her man, but you have become her slave. You are beyond help, and a thousand books filled with advice cannot help you anymore.

Any advice you give to men, about dating, relationships, and related subjects, only has meaning when it is given to a man who has a choice. The choice to say "Yes" or "No" to a woman. Without this choice the advice is totally useless.

The most powerful attitude you can display on the battlefield of love is the willingness to walk away from any woman who treats you in a way you don't accept, or who behaves in a way you do not accept from her.

When you want a woman but do not need her, and you are willing to walk away from her, you are in charge of your life. You are the master of your destiny. You are the man. You make the choices in your life, and you choose what is best for you.

But when you need a woman, you have no choice. You have to jump when she says "Jump!" She is the master of your destiny. She is in charge of your life. She makes the choices in your life, and will choose what is best for her.

Therefore, if you have ever been so deeply in love, that you felt that you needed a woman, pay attention to this principle. You have to be willing to walk away from ANY woman who does not behave in a way that is acceptable for you. Full stop.

I know this is a tough statement, but sometimes the truth is harsh. If you need a woman, you are no longer a man, but a slave. In that case, there is no use in reading advice about relationships. It would be more realistic to surf the Internet and look for a "slave-forum" instead.