Many men do not realize that they are controlling in their speech and very insecure when talking to women. When dating a girl, men often make the same mistakes over and over which repel her to the extent that the relationship will eventually end. Your actions and words, if not taken care of can actually make her doubt you, and when a girl doubts you she will not think you are the one for her.
Jealousy plays a major part in common mistakes that men make. Women do not like to always be questioned on what they are doing, and where they are going always. She will feel like you don't trust her, and this is the ultimate sign that you are insecure no matter who you are, when you act jealous it tells you are insecure.
When you are prying her for every single detail on things that normally shouldn't be an issue, she will feel you distrust her, and in turn she will begin trusting you less. She wants to feel secure, and when you are acting out on her actions and saying "where were you, where are you going, who is so and so?" she will feel that you cannot offer her the support she needs. No woman wants to be restricted, but by asking and talking this way, she will feel that you don't support the roads she is taking, but rather want her to stop living.
Asking about her past too much and about her past relationships will prove to her, just how insecure you are. You are asking about someone who is history, and you feel threatened by something that doesn't any longer exist; it shows her your lack to be logical, and your insecurities are overbearing even to you. Asking her how long since she was last dating, what her ex was like (in sex as well), and every single detail about her relationship makes her feel you are getting into everything too quickly and are doubting her. She may have a past, but she doesn't want it in her face every second.
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