The Mummy is the type of woman who does not have a clue what passion is. She goes through life without ups and downs; she is just going through the motions. The poisonous effect of "The Mummy" is that when you hook up with her, you choose a life without passion.
The Mummy is never very enthusiastic about anything. When she wins the lottery she will say: "Well, that is nice." If you would give her a sports car on her birthday, she would just say "Thank you." and never mention it again.
The Mummy is neither very upset about the negative aspects of life. If she breaks a leg she will say: "Well, these things happen." If she hears that the Third World War has started, she will say: "That is a shame."
When you meet a woman who never shows any passion or emotion, you are talking to a Mummy. And if you decide to start something with her, for example because she looks good, you sign up for a life without passion.
Life without passion is no life at all. Life should be lives from the heart, by doing things you love to do, and by sharing your passion with other people. This is what makes life beautiful and valuable. With a Mummy this is not possible; she cannot relate to this.
For example, a Mummy will never initiate sex. She may offer her body to you when you ask for it, because she somehow knows it is appropriate in a romantic relationship, but while you are busy with her motionless body, she is making shopping lists. She does not reach orgasm and she neither likes nor hates sex.
Some men make the classical mistake, to think that when they get to know her better, this will change. That when you show her passion, in time it will be returned. But if you do not feel passion, you cannot give passion to someone else.
On occasions a woman can be mistakenly classified as a Mummy, when she has a bad day, or when you talk about things which do not interest her. Ask her questions: find out if she is OK, or if something bad just happened to her.
Ask her questions about her hobbies and passions, about what interests her. Only when you have found out that she does not have a bad day, and that she does not have any interests, hobbies, or passions, you can classify her as a Mummy.
If you do find out that she is a Mummy, stay away from her, because hooking up with her is like signing up for a life without passion, and that is no life at all.
A mistake many men make is that to think that if you get involved with a woman with problems, you can solve her problems and lift her up. The reality is that people with big problems will always drag you down, if you get close to them. Do not let this happen to you.
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