There was a time (so I am told) that the one night stand was primarily the man's territory only. I suppose it could be during the past sexual repressive years.
The thing is, men were still finding ways to hook up with women during those times too, it just was not talked about. It was repressed, kept in the dark. I mean, how would it look if Ward told June (Leave it to Beaver, a black and white sitcom of the late 50s) he was having sex with the babysitter on the way home? Not even!
Those days are gone I believe. I know that the 50s image of a nuclear family and the role of a housewife are gone. But I say this, not because I'm a slut, and not because other women I know that occasionally do this are sluts either, but today, women often look to hook up for a one night stand, probably just as much as men do today.
If you are a man reading this, I actually heard in your mind say, "no sh!t...". But it is true. In fact, in a previous post, "In The Game, Hunting On The Best Day Is How To Hook Up With Women" I allude to it by stating that the best day to be on the hunt is Friday, when women are likely to look for a one night stand. Okay, I did not say that exactly, but I did say Friday is the night they are most likely to release stress, and sex was a great way for us to do it.
Now you can quit fantasizing about a one night stand, and you can actually go make it happen. What? Didn't the fact that us women look for it too boost your confidence? If you said no to that last question, you are doomed until you build that confidence up! We look for one night stands too, but we are not going to drag your shy ass from a corner and take you by the hand to do it! There is still a game afoot! And you still have to make it happen! Just now you know that some of us are going to make it easier on you.
What do you look for? Well, that one is a little more difficult. I have read other authors who suggest because a girl wears revealing clothes, that she is comfortable with her body and is looking for sex. I would not count on that.
We get dressed up and try to look as hot as we can regardless. The fact that we are going out is going to make us wear the sluttiest clothes we think we can get away with, that does not mean we want sex because of it. Do you as a man get dressed up and expect to have...uh, well, never mind, of course you do.
I think one of the biggest clues that a girl is a "cougar" (a nickname for a girl on the hunt), is if she is in a busy bar/club/other public outlet by herself. To be honest, being a social animal, we normally either want to hang out with our girls or be with men on dates. Unless she is an ultra independent "I don't need a man" kind of woman, if she is alone chances are she is on the hunt. You will know if she continues to make eye contact with you. Three times is the charm boys, go introduce yourself to her! Again, she is not going to come to you and take you by the hand!
You have to talk to the girl whether she's a cougar or not! If you keep going to these places and sit in corners trying to talk with your eyes or an occasional smile, it's going to be you and your hand again tonight! You are going to have to get over talking if you are going to hook up with women, there is no other way around it.
I'll leave you with this thought, half (that's right half) of the models of the world are lonely, single, and begging for a man's attention. Wanna know why? Because no men will approach them to even talk to them. Most men have a fear that they are too beautiful and would never have a chance to get a model girl like that.
And now you know the answer to, "Why are beautiful women usually attached to ugly or cruel jerks in a relationship?" It is simple, because the jerk had the guts to go talk to her. And chances are, her options were limited.
So go on! Go hook up with women and be okay with it if it is just a one night stand! We are! It just has to be a mutual understanding!
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