Stop moping around and feeling sorry for yourself, you may have lost a battle, but you haven't lost the war. Just because he's temporarily gone doesn't mean he's gone for good. If you still want to save your relationship, here's some fast and easy tips on how to do just that. These work, even if he has moved on to another woman and no longer appears interested in you!
- First of all, you need to find a way to convince him that he still wants you. This can be done, unless he clearly wants nothing more to do with you. As long as you still have a shot, there are several excellent options available to you.
- You put yourself at a real advantage in this situation, if you simply remain his friend! Show understanding and flexibility and demonstrate that you can still be around him without a lot of emotions and drama. Develop a healthy friendship with him and be able to joke around. Once the stress and turmoil of the relationship break-up has eased, he may very well realize that it is you that he wants.
- When you talk to your ex boyfriend, try to be considerate and sweet, while also exhibiting some attitude. You want to project a desirable image, but not an easy one. The goal here is to play a little hard-to-get, while increasing his interest at the same time.
- If you play a little hard-to-get here, fine, just make sure he knows you are still available, otherwise he may not feel the motivation to pursue. You may also want to hang out with friends and do a little bit of flirting, a little jealously never hurt, just play it on the safe side
- Play things very cool and avoid acting desperate or needy. If you show that you are desperate your ex boyfriend will likely pull away and underestimate your value. You want him to believe you are ok with what has happened and are able to move on (while still remaining good friends).
- Next, if you find him gazing or looking at you, or if you feel that he is, give him a sidelong glance. Looking at him from the corner of your eye will let him know you are noticing and paying attention to him, in a coy and mysterious way.
- When you have an opportunity, you should casually remind him of some of the great times you have had together - the best times. This will cause him to remember and think about the times when you were happily together. Stay away from bad memories, as these will have the opposite effect.
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