If you want to get your ex back, don't do the following, or risk any future you have with your ex:
Mistake 1) "But I love you sooo much..."
There are many kinds of love, but most of them by themselves are not enough to make your ex get back with you. If you don't express the right kind of love in the right way, then your ex will not feel that getting back with you is worth it. By running back to your ex in this way, you are showing desperation, which will turn your ex off.
Mistake 2) "Look at the rough shape I'm in because of you..."
If you exude confidence and you seem perfectly fine after your break-up, then your ex will start having second thoughts about the break-up. If instead you hole up in your room and cry incessantly, nobody, not even your friends, will want to talk to you.
Mistake 3) "How do you like them apples?"
Don't try and tempt your ex into getting back with you. Don't get with someone for the sole purpose of making your ex jealous. These tactics, even if they somehow work, will only create an extremely unhealthy relationship afterward which is based purely on sex, mistrust, and hostility.
Mistake 4) "But we can make this work..."
Remember, there is no "this" anymore. It's over. And if you want to get back together, then you need to take the proper steps required.
Mistake 5) "But I've changed!"
This is showing desperation again. Also, if you have to remind someone that you've changed, you obviously haven't.
Mistake 6) "Why should I try to get back with him/her when it was him/her that hurt me?"
You need time to think about how much you valued your relationship. Unless it was a severely unhealthy relationship involving abuse of any sort, then your relationship is probably fixable. You need to think with a clear head about why you both said things that you didn't mean and why a conflict started in the first place.
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