Most of us have meaningful relationships in our lives, including hopefully, the one we have with ourselves; however, many are desirous of manifesting even more meaningful and fulfilling relationships. What qualities would you like in a meaningful relationship?
Make a List
If you cannot think of any qualities that you do want, make a list of 10 qualities you do not want in a relationship. Complete your list then strike out each quality you do not want as you replace it with something positive that you 'Do want' on another sheet of paper. Once you finish your new list of 10 things that you 'Do want', throw the first paper of 'Do not want' away. Do not just fold it and put it in a pile of papers, rip it up and throw it into the wastepaper basket.
Take your 'Do want' list and add to it if you like. Read it two or three times a day; at the same time feel the joy of manifesting more meaningful relationships in your life. Meanwhile, be unattached to the outcome of wanting what's on your new list. Let it go or to use different language, surrender to what the Universe has in store for you. Your focus is now on what you do want instead of what you do not want.
Only Spend Time with Meaningful Relationships
If you are into the Law of Attraction, you know that what you concentrate on is generally what you attract. Therefore, it would make sense to spend time with only those people who you consider to be a meaningful relationship for you. If someone is irritating to you, spend less and less time with them. Eventually you want to have relationships with only those who have no negative energy around them.
A relationship in which you care more for your own interests, need more and want more from the other person, is a care-less relationship. This kind of attitude and behavior leads to alienation, resentment and a basic lack of oneness.
On the other hand, when you pay attention to the likes and dislikes of another person, this leads to a feeling of oneness, genuine affection and trust. This kind of relationship could be called a care-full relationship. Get to know a person's values and check to see if they are aligned with your own values.
10 Questions to Ask Yourself
Ask yourself the following 10 questions to help mold yourself into a perfect magnet for manifesting more meaningful relationships:
- Do I get along well with my family members?
- Do I feel that I have close relationships with my colleagues?
- Have I told my loved ones that I love them in the recent past?
- Am I willing to let go of toxic relationships?
- Am I willing to stop gossip about others if it comes my way?
- Am I willing to forgive others who have hurt me?
- Do I catch myself criticizing or judging others, even if inwardly?
- Am I interested in changing the habits or attitudes of any of my friends or family?
- Am I true to myself in all of my relationships?
- Do I accept changes in my relationships that happen over time?
Your answers will give you clues as to where you may want to make changes in your own attitudes and actions. It is best to get to know yourself first, and then you will be able to manifest more meaningful relationships with others.
Relationships dwindle because of many things: poor communication, lack of affection, differences in opinion, no consideration for feelings, disinterest in the other person and feeling bored with the relationship.
Soul to Soul
When you aspire for total oneness in a relationship, it has the potential to be a long lasting relationship. If you feel that all members of the human family are truly one, that is to say, we share one divine reality, you will be on your way to manifesting more meaningful relationships. These are the relationships that we long for - the ideal, unconditional, loving relationship of soul-to-soul.
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