An Unhealthy Relationship is when one person gives everything into the relationship while the other only takes the part he wants. In other words to understand it better, Unhealthy Relationships are not in balance of both parties to reach for the same outcome.
A healthy relationship is in balance and both parties are looking forward for a life together, as lovers, as a team and as a family. Both are giving everything into this relationship and they also protect it as they protect their family.
Today the reality and the trend is the Unhealthy Relationship, which leads into jealousy, fights, harassment, depression, divorces, kids are raised from only one parents, poverty and crimes. More and more kids do not know what a family with both parents is like, and most of them are ending also in an unhealthy relationship.
They see that an Unhealthy Relationship as the reality and that real family is old fashion or just fantasy images from some movies. The person who is still able to see what a healthy relationship is all about is still connected with nature and is able to bring others back.
What I really mean is that in a healthy relationship both becoming so powerful, full of energy and be able to create a wonderful, powerful family and lifestyle. While the Unhealthy Relationship is toxic, it draws all energy out, it destroys families, create health problems and easy leads into financial disaster with drug abuse
On the other hand deep inside everyone here on earth wants to be loved, been with their soul mate, live an abundance, harmony lifestyle, been healthy, have fun and joy. Now why are people not transforming what they really want? Why are they choosing a miserable life over a blessed life?
The answer for an Unhealthy Relationship is deep inside yourself and compares your wants with your feeling. Are they matching? Are you feeling the high energy for what you want, do you see the pictures and take the action to reach for it? Or are you just using the other person or your spouse as a punching bag and blaming them for the hate you feel about yourself, you punish your spouse because you feel the need to be punished, your self-esteem is so low that you must control the other person, because you never was been loved and believe that your spouse has no right to love you. You may say that is not true, just listen to the negative chatter in mind and it is not so much the words you say, but the words you think and feel are creating your tomorrow.
You can easy change from an Unhealthy relationship into a healthy relationship when you really want it and be willing to do the inside work. You have to master all the inside work first and than you will the result on the outside.
I just believe that when I done it in another country without family, money, and any support so can you. It is not easy, but after you make the transformation you are happy you done it. You are a great person and you deserve the best, never let someone else talk you out, because they only will hold you back or they are afraid what they will do when you are happy and in a healthy relationship.
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