Every break up is different, the people mostly, the reasons are often the same. As individuals, we all react differently, and it's the way we react in life that determines whether or not we can find the secret of how to get a girlfriend back.
Attitude.
Be nice. It may be tempting to try and "play it cool" by being arrogant and unpleasant. This is a defence mechanism we often use, based on our pride. We don't want to be seen as weak. Being unpleasant, even a little bit, is not how to get your ex back. It will simply turn them off, so show some humility and be nice, even if you think the break up wasn't your fault, (so why didn't she stay with you?).
If she has a boyfriend.
Probably the hardest situation to overcome. Best strategy is to break off communication - if she doesn't actually see you, she may start to think about you, particularly after the initial "shine" has worn off her new relationship. After a period of about four weeks, start sending occasional texts or emails. send something very simple, like "how are you" - just to show you still care and the door is still open to her. When you meet her friends, very gently let it be known that you still care, and when you see her, be a friend. ask her how she is. Talk about the old days when you were happy together.
Can you get a girlfriend back by making them jealous?
You can't. It doesn't work. There are exceptions that prove the rule, but generally dating other people is futile. It makes you seem more unattainable and remote, and is not fair on the person you are dating. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices to get what you really want.
If you are really serious to know how to get your ex back:-
You need a strategy. You can just dive in and possibly make things worse, or you can talk to friends and those who know you for help, but often this just leads to more confusion.
So what can you do?
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