He has a girlfriend.
He's married / recently separated.
He's very reliant on text messages, IM'ing and email for the majority of his contact.
He's ambiguous about the status of the relationship.
You're not sure when you'll hear from the next, even though you've been dating for a while.
You think you're in a relationship, but it's closer to a booty call.
He says stuff like 'If only the timing was different, you'd be the perfect girlfriend'; 'If only things were different I'd definitely marry you'.
When you try to tackle the status of your relationship or any issues, he tells you what you want to hear and then returns to his normal behavior.
He lives with his ex girlfriend.
He admits that he continuously dates multiple women.
He's not over his ex-girlfriend, and it's obvious.
He says he's over his ex but is quietly still trying to cope with the end of that relationship.
He mentions his ex or things that happened between the two of them often.
He's an overt mother lover, following her advice more than his own (or yours).
He's a mother hater, and has an overtly negative relationship with his mother.
He doesn't call when he's supposed too. Ever.
He's one big walking excuse.
You feel empty after you sleep with him.
He creeps out after sleeping with you even though you've been together for a while.
He has a stringent routine that he just won't deviate from - sometimes a sign that he has someone else.
He won't take calls either before or after a certain time - often a sign that he's cheating.
He doesn't come around to your place until late.
He is resistant to involve himself in your life.
He talks only about his problems, his successes, his life - it's always about him.
He determines the momentum of the relationship - you meet up when he wants to meet up.
He pushes for an open relationship.
He never refers to you as a girlfriend, partner or any form of significant other.
He uses sex as his way of demonstrating his so-called 'emotion'.
There are pockets of time when he seems to just disappear, and then he resurfaces with little or no explanation.
He's quick out the gate in pursuing you, gets your attention, and then goes into a slow canter.
He tells you that he has a lot of issues that he needs to deal with. He actually says 'I'm not ready for a relationship' but is still with you.
He says he wants to get married, but there is no sign of a ring, no sign of a date and years are going by.
He can't commit to anything, no matter how miniscule - everything you ask for something, such as whether he can do something with you, is a big drama to get him to say yes or no.
He may try and sleep with you on the first night.
He's got about as much emotion in him as a stone.
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